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Child Raising

Posted on Monday, May 21st, 2012 at 12:12 am

Question by PoohBear: Child Raising…………….?
My husband and i have been married for four years and are thinking about starting a family. i know it takes a lot of decisions from both and a lot of questions on child raising that you need you decide as a couple.what questions would be good to ask?

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Answer by JT
1) How will you discipline your children, some people believe in timeouts and others believe in a swat on the behind still others chose nothing at all.
2) How many children do you want, and are you willing go past the agreed on number if you want a girl… or a boy?
3) How will the children be educated, home schooling (you will need discipline and patience), private school (can be costly), public schools?
4) How important are healthy foods, do you just buy what the children like or work to get variety in there as soon as you can?
5) How important are sports activities, are you enrolling them in soccer, cheer leading or family outings?
6) What kind of emphases with be placed on extra curricular classes like art, music, drama? The public schools are dropping these sort of classes.
7) Are you going to raise you children in a specific religion, culture or political view? Are you going to choose to be open about all of it?

Try to keep yourselves connected in this process so you don’t lose track of each others love… date nights and couple time should be a must :o )

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Raising Good Children From Birth

Posted on Saturday, May 19th, 2012 at 4:53 am

Raising Good Children: From Birth Through The Teenage Years

Raising Good Children: From Birth Through The Teenage Years

Raising decent, caring, and responsible children is the most complex and challenging job in every parent’s life—and an increasingly difficult one in today’s society. Here is the most authoritative book available on this crucial subject, a valuable and sensitive guide for parents who want their children to grow up with lifelong positive values.
 
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Raising Good Children From Birth

Posted on Monday, May 14th, 2012 at 9:23 am

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Posted on Sunday, May 13th, 2012 at 5:00 am

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Depletion and Abundance: Life On The New Home Front
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When smart women liberate themselves from the mainstream life they were trained to aspire to and write about what they did instead, the rest of us benefit from a serious intellectual challenge to what is touted as progress. Formerly an academic in early modern literature, Sharon Astyk whose blog I’ve been enjoying, has brought to peak oil the much needed female perspective.

And what does that look like? Think Vandana Shiva meets Barbara Kingsolver meets the Tightwad Gazette. Sharon aligns herself with the powerdown philosophy first put forth by Richard Heinberg. She gives a convincing argument of why we are not going to save ourselves with renewable technology. But more than that. She firmly reminds us, in true Vandana Shiva style, that women have been doing most of the work of life so that others can participate in the "world" and make money off the formal economy. She provides a much needed reminder that the informal economy, that mostly takes place at home with making things and growing things and raising children, is going to be moving to the forefront of our lives when it comes to the post industrial life of post peak oil. And she does it by reclaiming this traditional sphere of women’s work from a feminist perspective.

This was important to me because she points out that we did not do the world a service by demeaning this work in order to liberate women. We just gave women the keys to the men’s room, so to speak, and left this rather important work to paid minority laborers and third world sweat shops. This, so that the second half of the population could then be shifted to the high octane life of dependency on manufactured goods and services. I never did buy that life, but living in the States you have to work hard not to participate in it. I had my third world upbringing to offer me another model, but Sharon has the harder task of prying loose the modern, convenience-run family from this dependency. She meets the challenge head on by tackling the many beliefs that without a high tech, high energy life we’d be back to eating insects. This is what I find so condescending about the assumptions of the first world, but through Sharon’s compassionate eyes I get a glimpse of what it’s like for a modern woman to weigh out the costs of this high octane life. Chapter by chapter she takes on the myths of our lives that have gotten all tied up in this dependency ie: education, health care, home maintenance and food growing and preparation. Her ideas are mind expanding in a way reminiscent of Ivan Illich, but with more home grown examples.

And by sharing her life in a country farmhouse, raising four boys, she shows what this domestic life would look like. I am gratified to watch her admonish her boys for insulting the food she serves them. She is a model for child raising that I have longed to see. Yet she humbly admits all her shortcomings while sharing what she is striving for. Her book is a lesson in becoming a responsible citizen. A manifesto for domestic self-reliance as she urges everyone to start a garden.

This brings to the peak oil community a different quality of discourse. It robs it of the thrill of big solutions, of high tech wonders or policies imparted by government decree. Local government plays a role, but mostly in changing codes that do not now allow the raising of livestock in your backyard. She brings the solutions down to what ordinary people can do locally. She even argues against the high expense of a solar powered home and suggests going more low tech. Thus her peak oil vision becomes one of frugality and old time homesteading technology, which begins to look a lot like a depression era America. (And I’m prompted to call on an octogenarian friend to ask her what that was like.) This vision also robs the peak oil thrill seeker of the satisfaction of seeing the world change in some dramatic way that will fundamentally affect the way we live. No we have been here before and it ain’t anything special. You can all go home now (and make do with what you have).

The promise of abundance given in her title derives from her satisfaction in a happier, simpler life. And people do respond to this message. The only thing missing for me is some kind of intellectual payback. I’m not much for doing something because it’s the right thing to do for my kids blah, blah, not having any. If it’s just going to be about duty and obligation where’s the fun in it? For me becoming self-reliant has always been about thumbing my nose at corporations by not buying into their crap and not having to work so hard to pay for it. (And not participating in their unethical rape of the world.) This may be the end of the line for me and peak oil as a framing device. Sharon has written the definitive book about living in a peak oil world and I have nothing more to add, but by grounding it so practically in everyday living preparations she also leaves me no political context in which to express this activity as a form of protest. Just surviving an unpleasant future is not enough. Sharon does mention that the opulent way we live robs others across the world of their share of resources, but this is not a book that galvanizes the political message of anti-globalization.

When a young East Asian man at the train station, saw this book in my hand, he expressed intense curiosity about it and I told him that it was about how diminishing resources would force us to live differently, more efficiently and frugally which would be good for us—especially Americans. So for a moment there we shared our third world perspective on the fallacy of the American lifestyle and I was able to offer him an alternative position to it. If this is how the book is received by Americans, then Sharon has done good.

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Raising Responsible Children

Posted on Saturday, May 12th, 2012 at 9:31 am

Raising responsible children

Are you in a constant battle with your children? Are you constantly yelling and saying the same things several times just to get them to behave? I have learned that when we do this, we are only wearing ourselves down and it’s not beneficial to you or the child.

You have to say what you mean and then follow with a consequence. You should only say something once, give the child a time limit for example “you have 30 minutes to clean your room.” After the time limit, if the chore is still not completed then you give the consequence and don’t bend. If the consequence is no TV the rest of the day then that means no TV the rest of the day. And by the way, you still expect the room to be cleaned.

Children are very smart from a very early age and they know how to push your buttons and what they can get away with. I have 5 children. My husband and I do not make idle threats, we expect a certain behavior. We do allow our children to express their feelings to us and we listen, but at the end of the day, we make our decisions based on the best interest of our children.

Do not let your children run over you. Say what you mean and then follow through with actions. Your children will grow up respecting you and others. All children need boundaries and they crave it, it shows you love them. Trust me, they may not say it now, but once they are grown, they will THANK YOU!!!

Give time limits. This lets the child know how long they have and prevents them from just playing around and you having to keep saying the same over and over. Make the time limit appropriate for the chore. Make sure they know exactly what time it is to be completed.
Follow through with consequences. If you don’t then your children are controlling you.
Allow your children to express their feelings to you. They will feel like they have a voice and you are just not handing down orders. Always do what is in their best interest but sometimes compromise is okay.
Remember you ARE the parent and it is your job to raise responsible adults. “NO” should always be your first response and then they can convince you to say yes. This really works because it gives the child a chance to look at the situation from your perspective.
Last but never least – Love them and cherish them. When they give you the behavior you want, acknowledge it and praise them.

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